too much

how much is too much? can you put restrictions on what you do? is there a protocol that one has to follow in ones personal life?

i was told today that its tough when you make something or someone a habit, make it sooo damn important that its difficult to live without. i have let so many people enter my life and really get to know me, i have not expected anything in return and things have been fine, the minute i start expecting things go haywire and i start blaming myself.

over a period of time i have realised that one needs to just go with the flow, one needs to just do what they feel like doing as long as it is genuine and straight from the heart.....

the expectation bit needs some working on, i still think that as you get to know someone and get closer and closer you can to a certain extent expect them to behave a certain way, unless you have expectations how can you say you know someone??

i am going all the way from now on :)