space

this morning i had a really long conversation about space. yeah space that people give between each other....

i used to always believe that the more space you give the more chances there are of the relationship coming to an end.....

then it all fell in place. this is the equation i worked out

1. me and you
2. growing relationship
3. issues
4. space
5. getting back
6. continuing where we left off

now the concern area is point number 5...

SCENE 1

if i dont know the person and the person doesnt know me, things would end at point 4.

SCENE 2

if we know each other and have figured that once you give space you need to try making it alright 10 times, and you do that then you continue to point number 5 and 6

SCENE 3

if you have not yet figured each other out then the concern comes into picture. you can try 10 times and the other person can try 5 times, to make things alright. where we go wrong is the fact that maybe the other person needs you to try the 11th time, if only you try that 11th time you can go to point 5 and then point 6.

there is so much that we keep in our heads and dont say.

if only we said whatever we wanted then there would be no assumptions..
if only we said whatever we wanted spaces would never be a concern
if only we said whatever we wanted things would not end
if only we said whatever we wanted we would be happy
if only we said whatever we wanted we would have the greatest relationship ever