do feelings change?

i couldnt sleep much last night, i was tossing and turning and when that happens your mind goes all over the place. i wish i could teleport myself somewhere on nights like this. go away from it all just to experience something new, to walk the streets of an unfamiliar place and soak up everything that i see so that my mind is flused off all the crap that is there....

so since i cant teleport i just lay there on my bed and let my mind take over. last night it thought about feelings. naaa i didnt just pick a topic and start thinking about it. this came from a conversation i had, during the day, about why people change and why feelings change. its always a confusing thing to be close to someone one day and not the other. and this friend of mine was all stressed out because someone who was really close to her suddenly wasnt.

i was wondering the following:

1. does it really happen over night?
2. do people have fallouts because priorities change?
3. was it really not that important?

i think it can happen over night because as humans one day we can like something, the other we can hate it, and another we can lowe it.....

i think that priorities do change. however if you are talking about family and spouses, then its different, and you cant really move away for too long. however if you are talking about friends and girlfriends and boyfriends, then its easier to move on. sometimes in the latter you do move on and never come back. sometimes you keep going back and move away again. sometimes you go back and the bond grows stronger till it becomes something which cant be broken.

its always important, especially if you are thinking of the person and the times you spent together. its just that we think too much about what the other person is thinking, rather than asking what they are thinking. so the assumtions make you drift away. the feelings remain but the egos dont let you get back to what is actually special....

my feelings never change.....i dont stop caring.....and i think i have enough bandwidth to keep people who have made a difference in my life, remain where they belong.....in my heart......